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The Wealth Money Can't Buy: How Robin Sharma's Book Redefined My View of Success

The Wealth Money Can't Buy: How Robin Sharma's Book Redefined My View of Success
Lucian Olosutean 11 Sep 2025

The Wealth Money Can't Buy: How Robin Sharma's Book Redefined My View of Success

One of the Best Books I've Ever Read

If you're into self-development books like I am, The Wealth Money Can't Buy by Robin Sharma should definitely be on your list. I just finished reading it and felt so excited that I had to write about it. This book struck a deep chord in me, and I think it might do the same for you.

How I Used to Define Wealth and Success

For a long time, I believed wealth was simply about having a lot of money. I thought true freedom meant being able to spend on whatever I craved. But in recent years, that view started to shift. I began yearning for something more–some deeper version of success that I couldn't quite define.

When I think of successful people, Bill Gates often comes to mind–not just for his brilliance, but for the way he gives back. He's one of the biggest philanthropists of our time. Warren Buffett, Elon Musk, Cristiano Ronaldo, Steve Jobs, Jeff Bezos–all represent success in different ways: wisdom, hard work, courage, genius, and consistency.

But even with these figures in mind, my personal definition of success still felt fuzzy.

Learning from Books and Mentors

Over the years, I've read many books across self-development, psychology, and financial education. I picked up insights on mindset, money, habits, and purpose. Authors like James Clear, T. Harv Eker, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Stephen Covey, John Maxwell, and Brian Tracy helped shape my thinking.

They taught me:

  • Success is built brick by brick.
  • It's okay to fall, as long as you rise again.
  • Consistency and micro-habits lead to real change.
  • Giving back adds meaning to your journey.

Still, something was missing–until I read Robin Sharma.

Discovering Robin Sharma's Wisdom

My journey with Robin Sharma began with The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari. It's a powerful story about a high-powered lawyer who leaves everything behind to find wisdom among Indian monks. That book was about purpose, balance, and finding happiness beyond material success.

Because I enjoyed it so much, I picked up his latest book, The Wealth Money Can't Buy–and it completely captivated me.

What Makes This Book So Special

This is the first book in a long time that had me thinking about it constantly, day after day. I couldn't wait to return to it each evening. The structure made it even more enjoyable: the book is divided into eight core chapters, and each chapter contains short 2–3 page subchapters. The ideas are clear, impactful, and easy to absorb.

What I loved most was how personal it felt. Sharma often describes where he's writing from–his desk, a cozy room, or a scenic view. It made me feel like I was right there with him, having a heartfelt conversation. I laughed, I cried, and I came away inspired.

The Book That Clarified My Definition of Success

This book helped me finally understand who I want to become and what success means to me. I no longer chase being "rich." I want to be truly wealthy–the kind of wealth Robin describes.

The 8 Forms of Wealth According to Robin Sharma
  1. Growth – Ongoing self-mastery and learning.
  2. Wellness – Physical, mental, and emotional health.
  3. Family – Deep, loving relationships.
  4. Craft – Pursuing mastery in meaningful work.
  5. Money – A useful tool, but not the end goal.
  6. Community – Belonging and strong connections.
  7. Adventure – Playfulness, travel, and new experiences.
  8. Service – Giving back and leaving a legacy.
Key Lessons That Stuck With Me
  • Be a "perfect moment creator"–cherish life's small joys.
  • Choose your life partner wisely–"Your choice of mate is 90% of your joy."
  • Ask yourself "The 10,000 dinners question"–who do you want to share life's ordinary moments with?
  • Go ghost–disconnect from noise and distractions to reconnect with yourself.
  • True success means balance–not just money, but also health, family, peace, and purpose.
The Core Message
True wealth isn't about money–it's about living a rich life through experiences, relationships, growth, and service.

The Spark That Stayed With Me

I've read a lot over the years–some books excited me, others were a struggle to finish. But it's rare for a book to light such a spark that I'm still thinking about it weeks later. This one did. It inspired me so much I had to write this. Honestly, I'm already thinking about re-reading it, if only my stack of unread books wasn't waiting.

After the Bible, The Wealth Money Can't Buy is the second most impactful book I've ever read.